(forewarning: this is kinda just a long rant.) This actually happened in April, but whatever, I'm behind in my blogging.
April this year was just crazy. Work got really really busy, Danny's classes got really really busy, and all of our weekends and freetime seemed filled to the brim with people to see, places to be, and things to do (though looking back I can barely recall what we even did). And one other thing that seemed to dominate April, for me at least, was a stake relief society conference and a ton of drama that came from it. About a month or so prior, all the drama started with me being "volunteered" with out my knowledge for a musical number during the talks at the beginning of the conference. The stake lady in charge of the conference called me, told me that my wonderful RS pres had offered my services since I was RS pianist to help with a musical number. I wasn't even planning on going to the conference since it was going to be my only Saturday off that month, but I'd already been volunteered, plus it sounded easy enough, she'd send me the music that week and I had weeks to learn it, no problem, right? -_- I should've said no.
Basically, it all came down to horrible miscommunication, but the weeks that followed were absolutely miserable. Over the next few weeks, I'd come to realize a few things. First, I wasn't just playing the music for our number, I was in charge of it. Second, it wasn't just ladies from our ward, they wanted to combine all three wards from San Marcos (ours, the spanish ward, and the singles branch), so I had to coordinate with all of them. Third, our song wasn't just a number between talks, it was one song of a dozen songs that comprised an entire stake-wide program (each ward had been asked to do a song). And fourth, what I learned the week before the conference, the practice they said we'd have right before the conference (aka the one I figured we'd practice our song with all the different wards together, since I had just been practicing with each ward separately due to conflicting schedules) was actually just a run through of the entire program ... ie. we had to already know our song, which at that point we hadn't even had any practices yet.
On top of all these miscommunications, there was just a lot of drama trying to get people to join the performance at all. Now, for me, I always hate being forced to do something I don't like (um, like this), and then made to feel guilty if I didn't want to or couldn't even go. So I tried to make it absolutely clear that I only wanted people to sing with us if they were already planning on going to the conference and if they actually wanted to. Granted, with that, you don't get many people to volunteer, so we had like two from my ward, five or six from the singles branch, and none from the spanish ward, but whatever, we'd make it work... however, our RS pres insisted that *everyone* participate, and kept going behind my back guilting everyone into going. She coerced ladies to sing with us on the day of the conference who had never even seen the music before. She even brought our poor RS chorister to tears right before the performance because our chorister, who works nights and hadn't planned on going, felt like she wouldn't be fulfilling her calling if she didn't join us despite having not slept in over a day and having always been great at fulfilling her calling every Sunday. ... And on top of all this drama, the week before the conference, I got a horrible bout of stomach flu or food poisoning or whatever, leaving me horribly sick that entire week and missing all of our practices and leaving everyone so confused and frustrated.
... but, all in all, I guess it went okay. Even though we ended up with twenty-plus ladies on the stand when we sang our song and had never sung it together before and probably half and never sung it at all before, it went okay. The program went on, and it was done. ... though I must say, maybe because of all the issues and drama or being sick or whatever, the conference itself just felt lackluster. They had the musical program first, then had four workshops you could choose from, then a lunch (well, sorta lunch... I don't know if you can really call a piece of sugar-free cake and some corn salsa with corn bread a lunch, but whatever)... I think the hardest part was just that I really didn't know anyone there. I had only been in my ward a few months and was barely learning anyone's name, plus they already had all their own friends to sit with, so I was kinda alone. but whatever. I did what they asked me to do the best I could. ... and I will never say yes again if someone volunteers me without asking me first.
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| ... the decorations at the luncheon... I swear it was hideously overdone. Do people really like this kind of stuff? though I guess they did, it seemed like I was the only person not drooling over all of the junk. It looked like Barbie got married and the puked over the tables in hot pink and neon orange. I don't even know what it all was supposed to be. It felt like several different ideas for centerpieces all placed together when one would've sufficed. ... seriously, they should've put more effort and expense into the food. ... can you tell how much I love relief society events? *eye roll*. |