Saturday, February 19, 2011

Halloween and Institute Dance

Halloween was always one of my favorite holidays growing up.  Dressing up in fun costumes, going to fun parties, carving pumpkins, and getting tons of candy - what more could a kid want?  While I'll admit that Halloween has lost a lot of the appeal now that I'm older, we still try and keep some of the fun of the holiday.  We didn't get a chance to carve a pumpkin (next year, for sure) but we did get lots of candy (curse the temptation of chocolate in the grocery aisles, lol) and we did get to go to the institute halloween dance which gave us an excuse to dress up, though we kinda decided to go last minute so we had to come up with a costume quickly, and since it was our first one as a couple, I thought it'd be fun to do a couple themed outfit.  I think it turned out nicely considering, and being able to use some stuff we had around, together it only cost us around $2.  yay!
... we also made and decorated cookies for halloween.  I thought the sugar cookie ghosts and pumpkins turned out great (and it was a ton of fun making new face designs for all the pumpkins), but the gingerbread bats and cats, only so-so.  I wanted them to be darker, you know, like black cats, but I guess gingerbread isn't dark enough (Danny said "that's brown - not black!"), and it's near impossible to make black frosting (though I have seen black food coloring at the store... maybe for next year).  Perhaps gingerbread should just be left for Christmas.  oh well, live and learn.
The Institute Halloween Dance!  ... if you can't tell who we are ( or who I am, people got Danny pretty quickly ... I didn't have a lot to work with, clothes-wise, at the time), we went as Clark Kent / Superman and Lois Lane.  I even made us reporter badges with our pictures on it.  Danny actually wore those glasses his entire mission, with his hair parted too, so I just used an old mission photo of him for the ID badge.  And he loved the shirt.  So easy to make, and best of all, he didn't have to wear tights, haha.

Some other friends and their creative costumes.  (l-r) Lisa, Nai, and Allison came as crayons, and they even gave themselves names on the sides like Lightning Yellow and Tickle Me Pink.

One of Danny's former roommates, Danny B. and his girlfriend (now fiance) Megan came as an Orkin pest control guy and a ladybug - too cute!

Danny talking to Jon, who always has fun homemade costumes (last year he was the game operation), dressed this year as a sock monkey

Rachel as a spider (she went back and forth as to whether she was Charlotte or not)

Mauvreen as a geisha

Russell as Phantom of the Opera, and Elaine as a black magician (?)... I think
Jenna as Minnie Mouse, and Gina as a peanut butter and jelly sandwich


At one point in the evening, they started playing limbo - it was quite impressive to see how far some people went, though I think some people's costume gave them a huge advantage or disadvantage.

Take Mark's, for instance (he came with a friend as the Duos Amigos ... there were only two of them, haha).  He was doing really good until he tripped over his poncho.


Then you have the winner, Jake (who is supposed to be the incredible hulk, but is just way too skinny to pull it off, so everyone just called him the green man, lol), in a skin tight body suit - no clothing to get in the way at all.  huge advantage. ... though, he did deserve it, he really just could limbo like crazy... I didn't even know a body could bend that much, haha.

Awards time!  It's always fun to see what people came as and who wins, though it's totally a popularity contest since the winner is decided by loudest applause.  Oh well.  The winner for the cutest costume went to this girl dressed up as Gone with the Wind's Scarlett O'Hara.

... waiting for results for scariest costume.  Though the sock monkey was creepy and seeing the guy dressed as Kim Jong-il be put in the category was funny and the zombie cowboy was scary, the winner was Cruella De Vil.

the best couples award - there were tons of people in this category.  I thought it was great the two couple going head to head were Peter Pan / Tinkerbell and the two pirates, until the audience (back to the popularity contest aspect) added in a third couple ...

Scott and his girlfriend Kylee came as Tiger Woods and his ex-wife (he had a lipstick kiss on his cheek and she had a bent golf club) ... it was funny, but not nearly as well-done of costumes as the others (and it's not like I expected us to win, but the pirates and peter pan/tinker bell had such cool and elaborate costumes).  Oh well.

Most original costume went to Kate, who came dressed in a fruit filled straw hat, flipflops, and a beach dress covered in prescription pill bottles for prozac and zoloft (fake ones, mind you) - she was a tropical depression! haha.

and of course, hands down for best group costumes?  The Village People! :)  Isn't halloween so much fun?

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Our First Place

Before we got married, I was living in an apartment complex for college students/singles (each room is rented out on its own lease in a furnished one-gender apt ... not exactly meant for marrieds) and Danny was renting out a bedroom from a friend's house.  Needless to say, we both had to move out so we got to find a place for us to live when we got married.  Another married couple friends of ours were living in a townhome-style apartment really close to campus but after two years there, decided they were ready to move to a house (he had just started his PhD and she taught chemistry at the high school, so they were going to be there a while).  They talked about how much they liked the apartment and how they wouldn't really leave except they wanted a yard so they could get dogs.  They showed us the place, and while older, it looked fine and definitely in our budget, so, they gave a good word for us, and it was great.  It had two bedrooms, one bath, and tons of closet space, and even a washer/dryer hook up (which we amazingly enough got for free from another friend who was updating hers, so while they looked like, and probably were, from the '70's and only had one setting, they worked), and for a really low monthly rent.  so, yay for us!

... then we actually started living in it.  ... let's just say, the price was cheap for a reason.  I can't deny that I liked having the amount of space and closets we had and the washer/dryer.  Those were the nice things.  ... the problems?  ... where to start?  They were built in about the '50's, and hadn't been upgraded since the 70's.  All the outlets were two-prong only, and often sparked when you plugged things in.  The insulation was very poor so the air conditioning didn't work very effectively (the heater didn't even work at all, though that wasn't as much of a problem in Texas until about December when we'd wake up and it'd be under 50 degrees ... inside. *sigh*).  You could see huge gaps under the front door when it was closed.  The blinds were missing panels.  The first floor (living/kitchen) was floor to ceiling, every wall, covered in dark wood paneling (and if that wasn't bad enough, a lot of the panels were bowing off the walls), with very little windows ... so it made it feel like a basement.  Plus all the kitchen cabinets were dark wood too (there were tons of cabinets, but many of them had broken hinges or sticky doors that wouldn't get clean and most were out of my reach, even with a chair... not very useful).  The upstairs was painted white (a little more inviting), but really poorly done with splashes of paint on the floor and all of the outlets, door hinges, etc. also painted over.  Which made it tricky when we had to take the doors off to get our furniture in since they were so narrow, plus the fact that each door was screwed on with different types and sizes of screws.  The carpets were kinda dingy, well, everything was, where the more you clean, the dirtier it feels just because you notice the dinginess so much more.  All of the plumbing was waaaay messed up, and just scary to look at.  The hot water pipe to the washer was broken, so everything had to be washed in cold water.  You'd have to warn someone when you were using the bathroom because the toliet could only be flushed once every half hour or so.  The shower head was at my eye level (about 5 feet high), so you can imagine as tricky as it was for me, what it was like for Danny to try and shower (he's 5'11"), though one good thing, since it was old, we had great water pressure (not water saving)! lol.  There wasn't any fan in the bathroom either, or any towel racks.  All the pipes leaked, and there was a huge leak from the bathroom (upstairs) above the kitchen stove that dripped constantly and flooded the oven and cabinets (and didn't get fixed for two months).  This also meant there was lots of mold in the walls of the kitchen and bathroom, which (I like to blame this at least) made me really sick almost the entire time I lived here.  There were only six parking spots on the street for the entire building of four apartments and the duplex next door.  If there weren't any openings, you just had to circle around and wait until someone finally left.  And, on top of all this, our landlord(ish) only owned our little building, like a side-job or something, so while he was nice, he was really hard to get a hold of and took even longer to get anything taken care of (like our kitchen leak), and things like our rent checks didn't even go through until three weeks or more after we sent them (very nerve wracking).

*phew*.  It was the place we lived for a while and it served it's purpose, but it never quite felt like home.  Danny calls it our "humbler". Every place after that will be great! haha.  I suppose that's true, since we certainly love our place here now, even if it's not the most expensive or trendy place here.  I guess the biggest factor for me, at least, in how I see the difference of our first place and our second... I actually want visitors here, haha.  so please don't be offended if I didn't want you to come to our first place, it's not you, it's the apartment. honest.  and if you don't believe me, I did take some pictures when it was at it's cleanest so it won't be forgotten... as if that were possible.

living room


kitchen (the large peninsula counter was nice for baking...)


... a set of salt and pepper shakers we got from the wedding.  When we first opened them, I was pretty much thinking, "uh, you've got to be kidding me... " (they're really bright and don't match any of our decor), but Danny at the same time said in all seriously, "... that's so cool!"  and so, we are still using them, and I'll admit, they do add a splash of color and they're growing on me.

... the stairs (one other upside, our quasi-landlord did actually replace this sconce that had been broken ... a month or two after we moved in...)

... our little bathroom

the bedroom


the office - my side (I am grateful we were able to get a two-bedroom apartment ... we both have L-desks and use them more than anything else, so it's nice to have space to put them)

the office - Danny's side

Saturday, February 12, 2011

The Wedding - Reception in Georgetown

(disclaimer: this post is long!  I just couldn't think of how to divy up the pictures in sections, and I didn't want to leave too much out, so here it is, all at once.  enjoy!)

After we got back from our honeymoon on a Thursday, we arrived in Dallas and were planning on going back home for a couple days before our second reception in Georgetown (Danny's hometown-ish... where they graduated high school and where his parents lived the longest before moving overseas) that Saturday.  Unfortunately, while we both stayed completely healthy in Mexico, practically the minute we got back to Dallas and to my parents house, Danny got really sick with chills and high fever.  We decided to crash the night, hoping to leave the next morning.  But he was still really sick and couldn't break the fever, so we ended up staying that night and going straight to Georgetown that Saturday from Allen while he still had a 102 degree fever, poor guy - but I knew with as much planned for this, the bride and groom couldn't exactly miss it.

We left in the morning and got there by lunch.  Luckily, the Bertucci's (family friends of the Garcias and hosts of our reception) let Danny sleep in their guest room while I joined the rest of the crew in helping making food and set up the backyard before guests arrive.  And luckily, Danny was able to join the reception and make it through the evening without too much trouble (well, a bit of teasing from siblings, but come on, give the guy a break) and still have a good time and greet everyone.  I was a bit anxious to be outside in August in my wedding dress for the entire evening (what was I thinking?!) but it really turned out quite nicely.  There were a slow but steady flow of guests the entire evening and while I didn't know very many people, it was nice to meet people that were a part of Danny's life.  And miraculously, as tight as my dress was the week previously, it fit so nicely today that I never felt squished or too hot and I was even able to eat my entire plate of food! :)  Thanks again for everyone who made this possible!

Tommy and crew preparing the food .... they were very serious about the whole business, and it paid off, looking and tasting wonderfully.





... greeting the first arrivals.  (one, uh, interesting moment was when we were setting up and everyone kept saying we've still got over an hour when I kept thinking, "no, it starts at 6"... despite it being printed on the invites that it started at 6 pm, somehow practically all the people helping out kept saying it started at 7 pm, and when I tried to tell them otherwise (um, I should know, I made the invitations), no one seemed to hear me... oh well.  that just meant I was changing into my dress as the guests started to arrive and the food was still being put on platters.  Oh well, it all worked out eventually.)



food! :)

... making sure we all stayed hydrated

FAMILY!  ... just a few that were there and actually got pictures of ...
Brent and Elena (thanks for the great photos!)

Nick and Kay

Joshua (Tommy's oldest)

Elena with Tia Rosa (Danny's aunt)

Rebecca and Rick (parents of the bride)

... taking a break from greeting guest to grab a bite to eat.  We had fruit and veggie trays, crackers and cheese, croissant sandwiches, lemonade, and for dessert, there were brownies and lemon bars! yum!

... back to greeting friends and guests, friends of the Garcias from Georgetown ...

The Bridges

The Arthurs (center and right) + guest(?) (left)
Tony Bertucci - host of the evening

The Halls

... more Halls

... and a couple more Halls

The Andersons (?)

The Robertsons

Joey and some friends

My coworkers and friends (l-r): Susie, Carmen (Susie's mom), Danielle, and Lisa (my roommate and maid of honor)


my architecture friends! (l-r) Madalyn, Grace, Lisa, Courtney, Jennifer (and Erin, in spirit - she had to work)


Silverio and Debbie with Ruslan and Abigal (Tommy's daughter)

The Watts

The Williams

Their gazebo looked so pretty when dusk fell and they turned the lights on.

The Carters with Debbie (far right, mom of the groom)

Lorissa and Tommy from College Station

Marie Fawcett (family friend, and our "caterer") giving us advice as newlyweds